Thursday, February 7, 2008

New Developments

I need to do my blogging surreptitiously so I don't get to post very often. I was planning on writing about how my wife had exploded and berated me and our son for no identifiable reason.

However, I first found links to Erin Pizzey on fathersforlife.com After reading her book and looking into her background, I stumbled on "menweb.com" (don't try "mensweb" -- it's a porno site). From there I found batteredmen.com. From THERE I found out about "Borderline Personality Disorder" (BPD). The descriptions I find there make me feel like someone has a hidden camera in our house! It is incredible. I have only been reading about BPD for a couple days, but it seems to me like it really fits my situation. In the Borderline community parlance, I am a "co-dependent" "non" with a "BPD" wife.

Treatment for my wife doesn't look very likely, and I need to talk with our Family Dr. about future steps, but at least I don't feel so alone anymore!!!

I really AM living in Oz!! I thought it was just me!

Look up bpdfamily.com, bpdcentral.com, and bpd411.org.

No comments: